
Another look at “Women have all the sexual power…”
I recently posted to my FetLife feed with the same question asked to three groups of people: “What’s the most frustrating part of kink and


I recently posted to my FetLife feed with the same question asked to three groups of people: “What’s the most frustrating part of kink and

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I will be clear about my position early in this short writing: THE PERSON WHO ABUSES

In June of 2021, Shadenfreude presented the topic “Pretty Please: The Basics of Begging Training” for Dating Kinky’s Weekend event, My Power, Your Power. The

To some, this is self-evident advice. To others, it feels anathema. For a great majority, it’s just fucking confusing. Especially in kink. Because, well, we

So, I’ve been working in my spare time on the outline for a new book about training your lover, or simple behavior modification to create

It’s a fucking insidious evil thing. And it’s so easy. And sometimes not even a conscious habit. Worse, it’s often hard to tell when it’s
It’s Friday, so I’m going with something a bit light and fluffy (that may end up being anything but… late-rage runs deep in many…). I’ve
One of my readers who has become an online friend wrote to me looking for advice on a situation, and could I please recommend any
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