Just because…

Just because…

And just because I’m a dominant doesn’t mean I will.

We often hear the phrase, “I’m a submissive, but I’m not YOUR submissive,” and applaud the subs for standing up for their rights.

Well, “I’m a dominant, but I’m not YOUR dominant,” is also 100% valid.

I get to CHOOSE who I dominate, who I play with and who gets to call me by a title or who gets a spanking.

I choose who I give my time to, and who I take responsibility for.

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