What if I only like ONE kinky thing?

Then you only like one kinky thing.

Focus on that. Find people and groups into that, and enjoy.

Kink is not some sort of contest to see who can out-kink everyone else. Or at least, it’s never been that way for me.

It’s about exploring what turns me on, revs my engine and gets me going.

And if one thing really does that for you, excellent.

For some, kink is a driving force in their life. A passion, something inborn that they could not live without.

For others, it’s a hobby that they can take up and put down.

For still others, it’s a temporary interest that is left behind.

ALL of these ways of kinking are OK.

After all, if someone really only loves ONE sport, we accept that. Golf? Sure. Basketball. Awesome. Rope? Go for it!

*smiles*

And then, there are those who spread themselves across a lot of disciplines, dabbling, or diving deep for a while before moving on to the next.

This is perfectly fine.

As I’ve said before, do what works. There is no WON TWOO WAY to kink.

The community says:

“Good for you! Enjoy yourself!” Do what you love whether it’s one singular thing or many different things!

— Jestik, 36F, submissive

I think a lot of kinksters are most comfortable and competent in one particular kink even if they are open to others.

— DarthDominance, 27M, Dom