How should I identify?
I have no idea.
LOL!
There are so many options.
Kinky identities and how we use them are as unique as fingerprints. Every kinkster is slightly different.
For example, although I identify as a dominant, I’m also a switch in play, an owner, a hedonist, a cuckoldress, and so on.
On some sites, I identify primarily as “dominant.” On others, I go for a more encompassing, “kinkster.”
If you’re not perfectly set on one label, there are others that might fit for now:
- Exploring
- Ask Me
- Unsure
- New To This
- Kinkster
And so on.
There is no reason that you have to choose a kinky role or label right away (or ever).
There is no need to box yourself into anything right away.
Just do what feels good to you, and ROCK IT.
The community says:
Be careful of falling into a category. Listen. Learn. Watch. Ask. Be who you want to be not what you think you should be.
— Siren/Kim, 55Q, Primal Predator
Be wary of ppl who want to tell you what your “role” or “identification” should be, especially if they then can magically fulfill the needs of the role they have assigned you…..
— Fl0werp0wer1967, 51F Top
