Dating Kinky Presents: So, What is Kinky, Anyway?

Dating Kinky Presents: So, What is Kinky, Anyway?

Do What Works

When it comes to any kind of relationship, kinky or otherwise, what works for one couple (or polycule) may not be what works for another, so I’m a big fan of do what works.

Let me say that again:

Do What Works.

That is one of my main mantras in life as well as in my relationships.

Take what works for you from this book, and leave the rest. Or use it to expand your understanding of what works for others.

But don’t think that I’m telling you what to do. I’m just giving you the information to figure all that out for you and your partner(s).

When Kink Is Not Right For You (Or For Them)

Kink is not right for everyone. It may not be right for your partner.

That would be hard to learn, but there you have it. You may still find incredible fulfillment in your life together by simply being the person you desire to be, without forcing them to conform to your vision.

Actually, I’ll be talking a bit about that as we go.

Let’s Discuss!

There will be people (Perhaps you’ve run into one or a few already) who will try to tell you there is only ONE way to kink, and this could really affect your confidence and interest in kink.

Have you experienced this? How have you handled it?

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