If you want to keep putting yourself at a social disadvantage, keep buying into the mental crap that other people feed you, instead of breaking out of your shell.
Pure bollocks like:
- Men approach women, not the other way around.
- Because men want sex more than women, duh.
- If you’re in BDSM for the sex, you’re a BAAAAAD person!
- Submissives are weak.
- The Orgasm Gap
- You’re broken if…
- Submissives should not have opinions.
- You’re lucky to get sex.
- Dominants wear dom utility belts and all black. (LOL!)
These things are not true for everyone. In fact, the opposite is true for many people. Why not for you?
And feel free to share some of the totally fucked-up wrong-headed and completely idiotic things that are commonly accepted that you have found to be false.