Hi – As one Domme to another, might I enlist your support to please refrain contact with my cuckold and husband, “SubUserNameHere.” He is collared, tattooed and owned by me – and he has been very dishonest and naughty.

I’ve gotten messages like this before, so many times. So, I’m going to answer publicly, to set the record straight:

As one dom to another, no, I won’t refrain from contact if your sub reaches out.

There are several reasons for this:

1. I answer EVERYONE that sends me a message. This is my personal code.

2. I am always here to help. Many people reach out to ask me questions, and I do my best to answer or to find them answers. This is often about personal relationships. I don’t judge. I help as I can.

3. Since I don’t play online, I am not one to have gotten into a place with your submissive that would allow for any sort of naughtiness or cheating from my perspective.

4. I probably won’t remember who your sub is to avoid contact. I get A LOT of messages every day, and unless I actually know someone in person, or talk to them regularly, I’m not going to remember a single screen name of someone I’ve never been very intimate with, especially since the name is only vaguely familiar to me.

5. I don’t know you, personally, either. You could be a crazy online stalker making things up and trying to alienate that user from their support system, or just causing them trouble.

AND FINALLY:

6. Even were ALL of those other things not true, I do not believe it is the responsibility of a third party (me or anyone else) to maintain YOUR D/s relationship rules.

• It is up to you as the dominant to choose a submissive you can trust to follow the D/s relationship you create together.

• It is up to you as the dominant to create the environment for your submissive to follow through on commitments they have made to you.

• It is up to you as the dominant to enforce any rules.

• It is up to you as the dominant to mete out any punishment.

• It is up to you as the dominant to keep your submissive in line.

• It is up to you as the dominant to inspire your submissive to do what you want.

• It is up to you as the dominant to let your submissive go if they have broken/bent your rules far enough to warrant such action or disrespected your relationship.

This is my view of dominance, and how I personally live my own life.

If this happens to you, I will wish you all the best in handling the issue on your end, though.

I’ve been lied to before in a similar way, and it’s no fun.