He is my sub, I am his Queen.
I am owned as thoroughly as he. Equally, with different responsibilities and tasks.
Were I to abandon my new scarf by leaving it on a subway, it will no longer be my scarf. Someone else will pick it up, and it will become theirs.
It remains mine only so long as I keep investing myself in it and it’s care.
(Interestingly, the original meaning of “invest” is to clothe yourself with something, to enter into something that you wrap around yourself.)
Sounds cynical, right? Maybe. I don’t feel like it is, though. We all do whatever we do because we get something from it. The question
Even online porn and memes, which often represent the most extreme edges of la-la land and unrealistic ideations of what a specific kink might represent has it’s uses when made into a tool for talking about concepts that we may not yet have had our own words for.
Even within the subset of swinging, there is a huge variety in how people live and love and get down. We discuss what makes a
I saw a post on FB a few days ago that started like this: “Men do not date for compatibility. Because they don’t feel that
Mmmm. YES! For me, sex is fine as a physical. FINE. But add in the mental, the communication, the consent, the need, the desire, and
Download: PDF | MP3s Warning! Warning! This will likely hurt. And it’s supposed to. In fact, if it doesn’t, you’re probably doing it wrong, and
It hurts to feel fear. It makes us feel unsafe and vulnerable. It makes us feel powerless. It’s also slows our thoughts down and makes
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