Ownership is always mutual (for me).

Ownership is always mutual (for me).

He is my sub, I am his Queen.

I am owned as thoroughly as he. Equally, with different responsibilities and tasks.

Were I to abandon my new scarf by leaving it on a subway, it will no longer be my scarf. Someone else will pick it up, and it will become theirs.

It remains mine only so long as I keep investing myself in it and it’s care.

(Interestingly, the original meaning of “invest” is to clothe yourself with something, to enter into something that you wrap around yourself.)

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Because, let’s face, no one on the internet (even on #DatingSites) cares about you until you give them a reason. And no matter how wonderful

Your Trauma

I get it. I’ve been through some shit. You might have been through more. Or less. But that doesn’t matter, really. because, as they say,

Fear me for I am DOMME!

I’ll be honest. I’m not very scary. I’m kind of like that meme of the teeniest, tiniest bat looking like a fluffy black marshmallow saying

Did you wake up this morning?

I’m guessing you did, because you’re reading this. 😀 Or perhaps your schedule is different than mine, and you’ve been awake longer than just today,

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