He is my sub, I am his Queen.
I am owned as thoroughly as he. Equally, with different responsibilities and tasks.
Were I to abandon my new scarf by leaving it on a subway, it will no longer be my scarf. Someone else will pick it up, and it will become theirs.
It remains mine only so long as I keep investing myself in it and it’s care.
(Interestingly, the original meaning of “invest” is to clothe yourself with something, to enter into something that you wrap around yourself.)
The idea that submissives are weak is prevalent, and I find that utterly ridiculous. Total shite, really. Watch the video! https://youtu.be/nP2c7-78SKMListen to the podcast! https://podcast.datingkinky.com/e/mn4pvp4n
That is a big fat lie. And it’s an easy lie to accept, to internalize, and to use to beat ourselves and others over the
I don’t preach nonmonogamy (although I sometimes want to). In fact, I’ve said it before, poly or nonmonogamy are not for everyone. I personally love
In a court of law, it’s critical that people have their say. That BOTH sides are revealed and examined for a third party (or a
I’ve always thought Meatloaf had it backwards. “I want you. I love you, but there ain’t no way I’m ever going to need you…” THAT’S
I lie. I have written quite a few pieces about lying, and how it’s really just not acceptable, and people say to me, “But everyone
A few months back, I wrote You’re Making Dominance HARDER For Yourself, You Know…, and I asserted in that piece that dominance is natural and it’s
Don’t treat me like I might break. Or like I might cry if you speak truth. Or like if I do cry that I can’t
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