Is There A Way To Practice Before Showtime?

You mean practice by yourself before exposing it all with a partner?

Of course!

Self-exploration is one of the best ways to get started with anal. Which is why my online class, Learn To Love Anal has instructions for people practicing singly as well as those with partners.

I mean, think about it…

You know how you are feeling: what is too much, where you can push a little harder, explore a little further.

You can test out what might feel best to you, so you can communicate it to your partner.

Granted, it can be a little more awkward. After all, you won’t have the same positioning and leverage that a partner might, but with the right toys and a willingness to explore, you can figure out quite a lot on your own.

And I highly recommend it.

Not so much for the masturbation aspect (although if you’re into that, that’s cool, too!), but for getting nice and familiar with your bottom parts and how it feels when they are touched and explored and penetrated.

Knowing how you like it, what sizes you can easily (or not-so-easily) take, the positions you feel most comfortable in…all of this can make a difference in your experience with a partner, and how you can guide them in the right directions to pleasure you.

Let’s Discuss!

Many people (including me!) had their first anal experience on their own, sometimes long before sharing with a partner.

Was your first solo or with someone?