And just because I’m a dominant doesn’t mean I will.
We often hear the phrase, “I’m a submissive, but I’m not YOUR submissive,” and applaud the subs for standing up for their rights.
Well, “I’m a dominant, but I’m not YOUR dominant,” is also 100% valid.
I get to CHOOSE who I dominate, who I play with and who gets to call me by a title or who gets a spanking.
I choose who I give my time to, and who I take responsibility for.
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Do I like this person? Am I better for spending time with this person? Are they
Generally speaking, as humans we want a lot of things from relationships. In fact, so much that there are hundreds of article written about how
Last week’s Wednesday Writing Prompt was about taking advice from someone in the lifestyle, what factors do you use to determine their expertise? Time in
In my experience, no. Not good ones. Your relationship with your best friends are not hard work, right? Why would it be hard work for
In the getting-to-know-you stages of connecting with someone, I often say: “Tell me something fascinating about yourself.” 9 out of 10 times, people are at
A lot of daters, kinky or not, have experience mainly with low-level, shitty kinds of people. They don’t know what they want. They don’t understand
I’m starting early, because I know this is a tough one. I’ve been reducing why for a while. A few years. Sometimes it still slips
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Well, fuck. I’m so sorry. Because it sucks. So, first, be kind to yourself. It happens
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