Because I Said So!

Because I Said So!

Because I Said So, Volume 1 cover

But, wait, who am I to be writing this book?

I’m Nookie. NookieNotes on most sites.

I grew up around kinksters and alternative lifestylers, and I’ve never thought anything else made much sense. I’ve been kinky for as long as I can remember, and have always loved bossing people around. My main fascinations are the mental aspects of D/s, communication, submission, and trust. I have an owned Pet and I am a polyamorous bisexual.

I love to write. I write erotica, kinky how-to books, opinion pieces on my blog, on FetLife (under my name, NookieNotes), and on Medium. I’ve traveled the US and internationally to teach kinky topics to people from all over.

I’m the passion behind DatingKinky.com, a dating site made by a kinkster (me!) for kinksters of all genders, relationship statuses, orientations and more, to search for and find each other for amazing connections!

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I’ve always been curious and adventurous when it comes to sex, and luckily, I’ve had a few partners who have been the same, so I’ve explored a lot of sexuality, and I write about it and teach about it whenever I can.

And, well, I’m a big fan of amazing people enjoying amazing sex in a variety of ways, which is why I’m writing this book and sharing my experience, knowledge, and fantasies of women in charge relationships with you…

Let’s Discuss!

Let’s get to know each other! Introduce yourself and mingle here to meet and greet other readers in the discussion below.

Here’s Dating Kinky’s guide to Fabulous Online Introductions, in case you’d like a bit of inspiration. *smiles*

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