Introduction

Hello and welcome to The Big Book of Ass. I’m Nookie, your guide into the wonderful world of butt stuff.

I’ve got a wide and varied world, full of fun and affection, friendship, silliness, female dominance and, yes, anal.

Both ways.

I take it up the butt and I give it. And I like it.

I Love Anal Play

No matter what you call it: pegged, drilled, strapped, driven, ridden, bent and buggered, sissy-fucking, spearfishing for poop sharks, skewered, impaled, rump-wrangling, railed, docking, cornholed, fucked, backdoored, biting the pillow, BUFU’d, butt-diddled, danced the chocolate cha-cha, rookie-loved, fifth-based, Greeked, poked in the brown eye, punched in the starfish, riding the Hershey highway…

I love it.

Anal is not all I love, not even close. But I would not give it up.

And To Be Clear…

It wasn’t always fun. My first experiences were quite awkward and desperately lacking. But then, I wasn’t great at PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex the first time, either. Or blow jobs.

But I kept trying because I knew there was more to it.

My first anal experience was with my first-ever boyfriend. And it hurt. And felt good, and I felt like I needed to poop, and I worried about pooping on him even while it happened, and I was a bit ashamed and embarrassed and turned on…

Yeah, not an overall positive experience for me.

My first pegging. Oh, good lord. I had no idea. It was about five years after my first anal. My boyfriend requested it. I’d seen it before, but was not really familiar with how it all worked.

The tools we had were NOT ideal. I couldn’t get the harness to really stay, the dildo was very hard and our body proportions were not made for doggy, which is all we knew how to do for that.

It was messy.

He was enthusiastic but I didn’t get much out of it. It was hard to thrust since his ass was very high for me and the harness was too loose.

Anyway, it was not fun for me. In subsequent adventures, we figured a few things out. I never really got the pleasure with him that I now get from pegging.

I kept with it, because he wanted it and because I got pleasure from seeing his pleasure.

It took much longer before I really got into pegging. But I’m glad I did. I love it. And so does my Pet.

But, wait, who am I to be writing this book?

I’m Nookie. NookieNotes on most sites. I grew up around kinksters and alternative lifestylers, and I’ve never thought anything else made much sense. I’ve been kinky for as long as I can remember, and have always loved bossing people around. My main fascinations are the mental aspects of D/s, communication, submission, and trust. I have an owned Pet and I am a polyamorous bisexual.

I love to write. I write erotica, kinky how-to books, opinion pieces on my blog and on FetLife (under my name, NookieNotes), and on Medium (as Dating Kinky Team). I’ve traveled the U.S. and internationally to teach kinky topics to people all over.

I’m the passion behind DatingKinky.com, a dating site made by a kinkster (me!) for kinksters of all genders, relationship statuses, orientations and more, to search for and find each other for amazing connections!

https://datingkinky.com

I’ve always been curious and adventurous when it comes to sex and luckily, I’ve had a few partners who have been the same, so I’ve explored a lot of sexuality, and I write about it and teach about it whenever I can.

And, well, I’m a big fan of amazing people enjoying amazing sex in a variety of ways, which is why I’m writing this book and sharing my knowledge of anal play and pleasure with you…

Let’s Discuss!

Let’s get to know each other! Introduce yourself and mingle here to meet and greet other students.

Here’s Dating Kinky’s guide to Fabulous Online Introductions, in case you’d like a bit of inspiration. *smiles*